Chances are good that you will need to do this more than once. Review s 4 Add review. Depending on the environment — a dive bar versus a dance club, a bathhouse or a play party — I might be wearing more clothes or less, but the target is the same: The whole point is just to not only relax the body but the mind as well. As I mentioned earlier, sex, in all of its forms, is in the mind. When I first started receiving anal, I thought all you had to do was take a dump and wham — you were ready to get plowed. Even if you douche with the right water, the right temperature, and the right equipment, you can damage the lining in your butt that can put you at higher risk for getting an infection from your partner.
Loren Couse I started MQ with the goal of answering all the questions I had about gay sex, dating and relationships when I was just starting out.
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If you are completely new to anal or not very experienced with bottoming for big men, it may help to get a lube launcher. Boy, was I wrong. Here are the options I know about—and my recommendations for each. Loren Couse 30 Oct Reply. This way, you are in control of how deep they go. I thought that being a bottom would lessen the probability of spurting too soon. It is probably not the best thing to do, but neither is excessive cleaning or really rough sex, which can cause hemorrhoids and fissures and other ailments.