Robyn to Kashley says: I would say no one really wants contact with human filth — except for coprophiles, who actually have that desire as a sexual preference yes, a fetish with faecesand some bizarre plastic artists — but when it comes to invading the excretion channel, we exercise the prerogative at least, some of us. Why does my butthole hurt after anal sex? Dont hold your breath, actively try to relax your body, keep breathing. That and i hate to say it but yes you have to be able to calm yourself.
Also, if you are in charge of penetration, throw in a bit of a massage during things.
Does Anal Sex Hurt?
The same thing can happen with numbing creams. Before i had my baby all i wanted was anal but it seems since i had her its nust painful want can i do i know my husband likes it but its uncomfortable for me. Orgasms are just as great through anal as well. Oil-based lubricants such as lotion and moisturiser can weaken condoms and make them more likely to break. Gemini to Robyn says: This page may be out of date.