We know that what we're experiencing isn't normal, but how far from normal is it? I don't bleed or anything and I have good lubrication. Should I be scared to have sex? Those still hurt putting in and removing, as well. I wanted it to be good for him, too. But one day, after a few months, we had a session involving lots of stimulation by me of her, then lots of lube, and I was able to get inside her - I wasn't especially hard at the time, and that seemed to help quite a lot.
There are many studies.
I lost my virginity 3 days ago, but sex still hurts?
Answered Aug 3, First, a hug from Chile. When did you lose your virginity? They hadn't told any of their first times that it was their first time. I thought I was awful. Sex kept hurting like hell for about six months no matter how much foreplay or lube was involved or what positions we tried.