Any material you aren't allergic to that sits comfortably on the hips is great for the harness. Start with something smooth and small - about the size and shape of a finger - without sharp edges and let your anus adjust to the size of the item. Many people worry that anal sex will be messy. Anal fingering is the best way to kick off any anal play. Then, take a shower and clean your anus inside and out.
Next, you should look at the size and shape of the toy.
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